Last updated: July 2026
Meeting someone new should feel exciting, not risky. Most people on findlove.ng are here for the same reason you are, but a few simple habits keep you a step ahead of the ones who are not. Read these before you match, and keep them in mind on the way to a first date.
Get to know each other before sharing personal details or meeting up.
Keep conversations and plans within the app until you feel comfortable.
Avoid sharing sensitive information like your home address or finances.
If something feels off, listen to your gut and step back.
Choose public places for first meetings and let someone know.
Help us keep the community safe by reporting suspicious behaviour.
Romance scammers are patient and charming, and they play a long game. The tells are almost always the same once you know them:
No genuine match will ask you for money. If it happens even once, stop replying, do not send anything, and report the profile so we can act on it.
Keep chatting inside findlove.ng until you are comfortable, and when you do decide to meet, set it up on your terms:
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